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I was at my neighbors house and had left my purse in her house and stepped outside with my neighbor and my purse was left unattended inside neighbors house with her drug addict son who just got out of prison,but I'm not gonna even mention it to my neighbor she is Old and tired.im feeling a bit bad for accusing my a b/f ??????why in the world did I blame him? In the 1st place .im just glad that I know now and I'm gonna be lots more careful with my controlled meds I'm bad to carry them around in my purse just asking for them to get stolen from me .but I've been keeping them in my purse for long long time.my a bf would have taken them in mths past and he never would ,I'm just going off my rocker here and been acting crazy,toward my a bf ever since I found that woman on the internet that he and she had been talking for 5 mths everyday,but I guess it's hard feeling used cause he lives with me and I'm paying everything he helps out as he can but putting that woman before me That I can't stomach,I've already had words with her and her husband don't know about any of this and she and mark acting like they done nothing wrong that they were just old school friends talking ,Ha I read and reread it and they were both getting hot for each other she was getting hot for my man and she said she had a great husband.this will all drive one crazy now I'm trying to tel my a bf that he should take my side and he saying he not taking nobodies side so now I can't trust him ever that's internet cheating in another form.even though there wasn't no sexual content in it there was flirtations.thanx agin for listening hugs ,esh again looking up



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Keep the focus on your recovery and trust that your intuitions are accurate.  This seems like a crazy place to be.  Take good care of you.



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Since at this point, you really don't know who took your meds, the good news is you can see that these are a controlled substance that you can safeguard for your use.

As Paula suggests, focusing on you and your recovery without discounting your intuition will be a big help to you as you decide for yourself what is in your best interest in this relationship.

Keep coming back.

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I hid my meds in my Raggedy annes pantaloons and inside this one stuffed animal.

um we cannot make anyone do anything. it's their choice.

what is your choice, what would make you want to have a relationship with this cheater. that is what I would be asking myself.....

I would not put up with it for one second.. nothank you there is the door......



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