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jillybean1


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Hi all.  My RAH has been home a week now.  He's going about his own recovery and that is good.  I had a weekend away with the kids planned for Mother's Day.......long before I knew he was coming home.  So we left and I gave him instruction on how to care for the animals.....including our new Lionhead bunny...and off we went.  

I felt really good that I didn't mention anything about how to care for himself.......I left it up to him.  He asked for  a Honey-do list and I gave him some stuff that had been on the back burner.......since he was gone for 2.5 months.  Basically yard work and junk cleaning stuff.  We got home and all was well.......He shared about his meetings he went to and I said I support him and  told him that was nice.

I guess I am learning to live differently now.....I focus on me and what I need to do.  

I am still working on the patience aspect......my BIG thing to work on .  I want things done and over with......the bills he racked up to be paid and his court issues to be decided and done.  Well........that takes time.....so I breathe and go forward.

Joined a Zumba class----so much fun.

Today was good.

I wish the same for all of you!  



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tortuga


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Happy for you, keep it up and enjoy ZUMBA, it's good energy


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grateful2be


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I'm happy you joined a Zumba class that is fun for you! I'm also glad things are going well right now, too. Thanks for the update.

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KennyFenderjazz


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Jilly,

So glad to hear things are going well. During this phase with my AW [ is she RAW? I don't know if I want to call her that LOL) I started in a lot of growth, both personal and relationship - wise. I hope the same for you.

Kenny

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Keep it up, I work out when frustrated and love it! Keep up the good work and when you find out how to get more patient send me the secret. Sending you love and support!

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Good for you...recovery in actionsmile



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