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Post Info TOPIC: Back years later.


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Back years later.


I started posting and reading here years ago. I got so much help wisdom and gained strength. I left my alcoholic BF. Now I have another. he does not drink, but is not living an active recovery life. I feel sad and lonely and resentful a lot. I know it is time to work on ME. Thanks for still evening here. 



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Welcome Fifi .. glad you are back. :)

Hugs S :)

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Hi, Fifi: Welcome back. Working on you - I like the sounds of that. Keep coming back.

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Hello Fifi~I've been really sick with bronchitis and I was so ill I haven't been to my f2f meeting in a couple weeks and I also couldn't keep up with my daily reading c2C. I definately back-slid in just these two weeks. I did stay in daily touch with my sponsor but the valuable lesson I just had reinforced, is that I need to stay really focused on all my alanon help. That includes this message board, which I try to read/respond to as often as possible. But I saw how quickly I have slipped back in the anger at the spouse dept. What is comforting, similar to what you said, is that I know very quickly I can get back on track with all the great help available. I think after years and years of being miserable and co-dependent, I need to keep my alanon work a priority. So welcome back, Lyne

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I want to Welcome you back Fifi

When I came I was a mess but in just one short year I have gained so much knowledge and peace I can start to live a normal life again.

So lets start taking care of you and don't forget to visit here often because you are not alone and we will love you until you can love yourself....

((( hugs )))


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(((Fifi)))...welcome back...pick up where you left off and follow thru.  I've dropped one and picked up another myself..more times that I wish to mention.  Been awhile since the last one because I kept coming back and stayed.  You're home  ((((hugs)))) smile



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Welcome back Fifi.

I know that recovery is a hard long road.

Maresie.



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Thankyou so much everyone. What an old familiar and calming feeling it is to read your words. Sigh.



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