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IHi wisdom so glad you reached out and connected. You are so correct, breaking the isolation and connecting with others who understand as few others can is the first step towards recovery. I'm glad that you are here.
I'm in need of a face to face meeting tonight . Tomorrow I'm off to court to keep my RO in tact and I no he reads all my post and I can care less I'm honest with my post . He wanted a early hearing to waive the felon charges and to drop the RO. He wants his guns back that I do know . And I do not agree of that for my safety and his own safety . He admitted he was a dry drunk he been working deep in his program he says .i can only believe or hope that he is. It's not about me anymore . I cut the ties on this marriage and not for any other man .just because I have a male friend and only talk to him and share slogan and give him hope to just like on here , doesn't make me a bad person. I live for me today I take care of me. I can't care for some one else . The only person I want to know and love is me . I'm working on me and have been for long time . I just wanted to share this with you all
Thank you love wisdom
Today in court sucked . My ah defended himself today like he has his rights to . And took focus off of me the one he assulted and made it all about him . I did not get to defend myself or let them know the abuse I been under and the control and manipulation he had me under. But instead he claimed his alcoholic card again to defend his action for his action on me . Told them about me how I was sexual abused and PTSD and when I was a child , and his new medication that can make him angry and violent to use as a reason for his actions and my post on here was put out there like it is now for every one to see , and to sit there in court while they still gave him the right to ask me questions about certain ppl and days of certain things that took place . I sit here and I see that I still have to justifie myself to the alcoholic and the court let him do this . Let him run the whole show while I am the one that's been hurt and in harms way . When do I get to stop talking to him and explaining myself to him . The children are with me and this was all for dropping the felony charges and RO to protect me . The sick alcoholic still violated the RO used the system to the best he can and find his way to try to control the broken marriage again . Court didn't see him at fault for reading my personal notes or calling ppl and asking them if they new me . He had me so confused In there that I couldn't even remember how to spell my name . But he made sure he said my name out loud wisdom
hello , happy to be here and working my way threw the other side. i see clearly now since the fog has lifted thats all i have to share.