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I just HAD to share this! So my AH has been gone for maybe 2 or 3 days...kept saying he was coming home...We both know I am moving out (tomorrow)...I have about giving up hope and I have been crying all day....so I had myself a beer. Now, I totally can't handle alcohol, I relax but I really can't do much else! lol.
SO..He just called ME for a RIDE! hahahaha. His car is one of those "keyless" go cars where you just push the Start button. So I imagine someone else was driving or maybe someone else had the key in their pocket and he dropped them off while the car was still running. So he left and drove for 20 minutes and stopped at a gas station (to pee lol), and now the car won't turn on! So he is completely stranded! and he called me to come get him, but I can't lol - cause I am basically drunk. What a turn of affairs!
I guess my lack of inhibition let me tell him WHY I couldn't come get him...lol = / he hung up on me. And I don't even think that I am going to apologize.
Oh my goodness....what a turn of events. I hope he can take his own anger and think about why....oh because my wife has been drinking but takes responsibility not to get in a car. Oh and why should you apologize you did nothing wrong. You are taking care of you.
Take care and let go let God.....
-- Edited by Cathyinaz on Tuesday 25th of March 2014 06:48:40 PM
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Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth
Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.
