The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I know my right now as a person who struggle with every day choices and demands that are placed on us when we have the right , our own right to chose what is good for us . Like every other person -no matter what age exsperience or situation , I am rare , unique worthwhile,human being I will make mistakes and will learn by them . I will be pt with the alcholic I will respect him but I do not need to obey him , I can claim my rights to be me without explanation apology or defense . I am responsible for being me ( wisdom) at all times . I also am free to make my own affirm and equal rights and responsible for my own action I make weather there right or wrong , as a co dependent I will always be easy to sway both sides but hope to continue my own path of recovery for I to am sick
Thank you for acknowledging my hard work . I only get praised on here ,it's so hard to keep the focus on me and learn about me and care for ME . When the home is still swimming in kaos .
great progress....always remember you are an individual, Alanon states that your personal freedom is yours for the taking. You are an individual free to be yourself and
live in serenity and joy.
Hello I'm gonna post here since this topic has already been reviewed and photos taken . Well my A broke the trust again in fact I never found trust in him because I could careless he was the last thing on my mind . I was and am working on me so . I'm just frustrated that I'm giving up my friendship with another man that I'm friends with because my A is jelious because he realized that he lost me. I can't see this marrage working my A says well you haven't Tryed to work on it . And that's not true we went to marrage counsling2 times first time he said because he was just going for me because he was still drinking . 2 time because he just got sober so he weeks of withdrawal or emotions were there so when those went away and then the whole inventory of his started which was hell for me going threw . I gave up on this marrage a while ago on and off again slip ups on his half . Yes they fall off they slip up . But these are more damaging then any one else . He verbal and mental emotional abusive. And it can go on for long time till he talks to some one and or goes to a meeting . Maybe a month goes by we have another slip up again who is in the line of fire by me . These slip ups turn into question where u going or asking the kids what was she wearing the following the badgering . I set major Boundarys last night and he fails any of them we done . Granted this is harsh and we both know he will break them again . But really how much more do I have to go threw with his slip ups?? I'm tired of this I'm making progress in so many ways I' just can't handle it anymore .
