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Cathyinaz


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My son has been calling me but I haven't answered. He isn't leaving any messages or texting me so I don't know whats up. I can only pray he is OK but he doesn't show up here because I can't have him.

I don't like it when we tries and calls me.  I don't want to hear from him at all right now.  I like my peace and want to keep my serenity and he will destroy it in a heartbeat because I let it. Well...  I won't let it this time...never ever again. 

Just posting here has calmed me down and I want to keep it that way

Thank you for being here my friends....

 

 



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grateful2be


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Prayers for continued peace, Cathy, and for your son, too.

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Prayers and good thoughts for you and your son Cathy.

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Prayers to you Cathy....we are here with you

 

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My sponsor also reminded me that part of No is a complete sentence is that phones have "off" buttons.   Hah!!  worked when I worked it.  still does.   smile



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Peace, Cathy...



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Sending you love and support always!

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Cathyinaz


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The phone has been turned off for the night.....

Prayers for all of us that God will continue to give us peace and love our A's and help them overcome this terrible killing disease.

((( hugs )))


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bud


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Sending prayers to you and your son. Good taking care of yourself- taking the breaks you need to protect your serenity. Sleep well.

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Hi cathy, I know that awful feeling. I hope you had peace and your son is okay.x

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Honey, I invite you to change saying my son, to my sons disease is.....that may help you. It did for me with my exah God please bless him....

You are working so hard, big sigh. He sure is stubborn. If he ever gets to that place of finding serenity within his program of recovery, that stubborness may keep him there.

The more we allow them to fly on their own and fall, the closer they may come to realizing they will do anything to find serenity!!

I know it hurts, you can do it!!!! Hopefully dad will too now!!!.

I am feeling a miracle coming. Grateful2be and I have a secret we share about that. I will tell ya someday!!

hugs hugs and more hugs, debilyn



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Stay strong, Cathy. I know it's hard but you are doing so well. Remember you are not alone.

Prayers for you and your son.


((((hugs))))

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turning:the:ringers:off:on:my:phones:from:7:30 pm:to:7:30:am:has:allowed:me:to:get:back:into:healthy:sleeping:habits.

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Oh yes when my AH went a bit crazy and he called every minute, when I heard the phone ring I jumped then I too realized it had an off button----LIFESAVER!!!!

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