"The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old,
But on building the new."
Socrates
Great reminder Beatrice. Missed your postings
Letting go of the past and concentrating all our energies on the present is something that I strive to do one day at a time.
It appears that Al-Anon's philosophy and principles are supported bySocrates and many of the other ancients.