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What to do? I am sooooooooo powerless these days! My cuz won't call to give me the latest news & my AH is driving me nuts! My husband is bound & determined to make me crazy! He is constantly(still) having me repeat things I say 2 or 3 times. OLD NEWS! & he curses like a sailor. This is a problem because I am trying to clean up my mouth. I also don't appreciate movies that have constant cursing as well. Did you all hear about that movie where they send the F-bomb 506 times? I am appalled. Is this the only way men can communicate? I know they think that is the way to talk to each other but I am a decent woman who cannot stand the language anymore.
As far as my cousin goes, I talked to her on Tues. & she texted me yesterday not wanting to talk on the phone. I am concerned that she is fading fast. She is giving up the will to live & I don't think she wants any feedback from me. Like I said before, maybe she doesn't need anything from me right now. She is basically the only family member I communicate w/ except on Facebook & those moments are so impersonal.
So, I am at a cross in the road where I don't want to be! I am just grateful that I am not them. I am me! I am happy to be who I am because I am having a hard time tolerating those that I love.
Your going to have to get your hubbies attention before you say a word. Or yes it's going to make you crazy. If I really have to say anything to my SO I have to sit right in front of him for him to listen.
As far as the cuz go's.....pray she will be OK and ask HP to take care of her until she's ready to get in contact with you.
((( hugs )))
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Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth
Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.
