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It is true, I have been lurking for some time. New year- new beginnings. I wanted to finally introduce myself to all of you and say that you are an amazing group. I have been taking Jerry's expert advice and really really listening. I hope eventually I can offer some useful ESH. I drank, smoked, and drugged in the past with my husband, I don't now. He has told me that he is not interested in quitting drinking beer or smoking cigarettes. So... what am I going to do right? I have been detaching and taking life one day at a time. I have mostly gotten past the anger, went through a sad time of almost grieving, and now moving toward some acceptance. I have much to learn and lots of work to do on my side of the street. I am learning how to treat myself well and celebrate my milestones. I realize I did not get here overnight and this will likely be a long process. I have found the listing in our area for face to face meetings and plan to attend in the future. I am happy for today, I came on here and had the courage to finally introduce myself, this is scary and exciting all at the same time! Glad I have all of you to help me along on this journey, Happy New Year.
MorningGlory
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Aloha Morning Glory (that is a nice nick) and welcome to the board. So you have some tools and that is great cause we use those also. Listening with an open mind was taught to me in my meetings by the old timers and my sponsorship and our literature talks about it also. First Al-Anon promise kept for me is "If you keep and open mind....you will find help" I found help that wasn't offered anywhere else and it saved my life literally. Kee coming back and share how this program is working for you so others can learn also. Glad to be of support. ((((hugs))))
yaaaaaay....glad u decided to be a part of us.....I promise...if we do bite, its gentle, LOL.....we are just a bunch of people who either have or have had alcoholics in our lives....i grew up with it and my favorite brother is an alkie.... programme keeps me sane...keeps me focused on me...keeps me focused on the only thing i can change......ME...........WELCOME and happy new year...
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Welcome and glad you are here! It will be a great journey for you. We are here for you. I lurk alot, and am trying to post now too. (((Hugs))) Glad you are here.
Thanks everyone for the warm welcome messages! It means everything to know I have your support. As I said you are an amazing group of people and I am proud to be a part of MIP.
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Nothing has changed but my attitude, everything has changed.