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Today was a real test for me. I had to ride around with ABF for a couple of hours while he looked for parts at the auto stores in town. I'm sure you all know what that's like:/. I almost lost my cool a few times with his tantrums, rudeness, and the fact that his ADD almost got our borrowed car demolished and us killed, me certainly, since the huge truck would have smashed my side to bits. However, I think I passed the test at least with a score of 75. Not great but I made it. The next test is this holiday coming up. ABF is cycling and loudly obnoxious, so he'll either be drinking or drugging or all four of his repertoire. The good thing is... I might be getting an actual roommate! One that can actually help with things:) and it'll give me wiggle room with bills, and possibly save up for getting out of here. I'm hoping It works out, but I'm keeping my eyes open.... Hope you all have a wonderful New Year....good things!

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Keep letting go Raven...and keeping yourself safe...he doesn't get to put you in dangerous situations without your permission.  (((Hugs)))   glad you are safe. smile



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Jerry F wrote:

 

 

Keep letting go Raven...and keeping yourself safe...he doesn't get to put you in dangerous situations without your permission.  (((Hugs)))   glad you are safe. smile


 agree with JERRY   AND

YOU say   The good thing is... I might be getting an actual roommate! One that can actually help with things:) and it'll give me wiggle room with bills, and possibly save up for getting out of here. I'm hoping It works out, but I'm keeping my eyes open.... Hope you all have a wonderful New Year....good things! 

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lets hope that this comes through.....this ABF is only going to make things worse and worse as his drinking nd drugging take over his body and mind.....U don't owe him your safety or your sanity.......and its true...he can't endanger you if you don't allow it.......PEACE and SAFE holiday



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Live and let live and do it with peace and goodwill to all!!!! 

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