should have put this here....

Thank all of you for stepping up and giving me some great input

thus far i have done the following.....

called my sponsor who is a ret. police detective from Seattle....she left the force when she and her husb. were working in robbery/homicide division and he got shot to death in his car....she got out and got a job working as a park ranger till she moved to calif. in the early 80's when we met.....

I did some research and routed out ALL her allies/relatives/friends whom she may use to get to me and i blocked their email addresses.

called Verizon and becuz its only nuisence, they said the only thing to do is   change my number (wont' do that because my entire life is connected to that number)  and to keep the blocks renewed so I bookmarked the place where you can whiz right into the verizon block calls and i blocked hers and her relatives who would "lend her their phones"......

she was already blocked on facebook and I am going to, when he recovers from the flu, warn baby bro that if he allows her to use his phone or his email to get to me, I will cut him off too.....NO exceptions.....the others I felt who would not help her, but I warned them anyway...."help her stalk me and you are cut off"......

so i have basically plugged any holes i can think of...she had more than one email with the spellings real close and i blocked both.....i will keep doing this and doing this 

AND save/document these incidents from now on and if this persists, then we step it up......i go to file a restraint order against her ....

I don't think it will go that far.....her type of stalking me is basically a misdemeanor becuz she is not threatening my life or coercing me to do anything illegal or anything, it is just nuisence stuff, however i can still file agaisnt her and she COULD potentially if she keeps it up get fined, even a small jail visit.....dunno , i kinda think  baby bro. will see my "info gathering" post on FB  and tell her that she better stop becuz  "baby sister" is getting advice on legal action and stalking and all that......i KNOW she isn't going to want to mess with that...she is terrified at the thought of going to jail and she worships money so is NOT going to want any of that....

I really would be surprised if she were to violate it if it goes that far

i am going to take care of me, one way or the other, within the law,  but there comes a time when if ignoring/ shunning/ cutting them off does not work, then the bully needs to get slammed with court order and I WILL do it......

anyway,  thanks you all for stepping up and giving me your input.........

PEACE 

PS...for those of you who don't know what this is about, I posted about a bio sister who is , in my opinion, stalking me