The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
My friend the counselor tells me he discourages addicts in recovery from setting too many goals. How do people get better, then? I wondered. He explains they create new habits by focusing on short-term outcomes they can control. The point is the process, not the finish line.
My son in recovery (without a program) hates plans he says they never work, short-term outcomes sound like something he may try, I hope
http://goinswriter.com/no-plan/ (different thoughts on habits vs plans)
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