The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I have only joined this forum a day ago yet I now feel right at home free to talk about my experience strength and hope , good bad or indifferent. I don't have to be perfect just real open and honest . The language of the heart can be sad, mad, and glad and most of all honest.
Thank you, Zabi. Welcome to MIP, too. Perfect is a word that somebody made up. Who truly knows what it really means? But - "the language of the heart?" I'm fairly certain most if not all of us knows exactly what that means. Thanks for the share.
I know how you feel. It took me weeks to create a account. And wonder all the time, why did I wait. Welcome. It will bring up a lot of different emotions and feelings, at least it did for me, and I almost didn't come back after day 2 - but I am so glad I did. I ask....... why did I try to do all of this alone????? XOXOX
This place saved me and I have learned so much - good luck to you :)
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Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.
I like this post.... first off, NONE of us are perfect, so welcome to the club :)
Secondly, I love how you acknowledge the feelings portion - we DO have a right to all of our feelings/emotions, and nobody has the right to deny us them.
Keep coming back Tom
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"He is either gonna drink, or he won't.... what are YOU gonna do?"
"What you think of me is none of my business"
"If you knew the answer to what you are worrying about, would it REALLY change anything?"
You bring very good positive support and ESH to the board and for that I am grateful. Welcome to the family and I hope you stick around to support the newbies who come here looking for serenity and sanity. ((((hugs))))