The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
So my daughter's wedding went well. Her twin sister, my AD, ended up showing up to the wedding at the last minute after saying she wasn't going to attend. I'm glad that I didn't get in the middle of things and let my HP do His work. She was emotional at the ceremony, but we were all glad that she chose to attend.
And my AD also showed up to go with us to spread my AH's ashes at sea a couple days later. We didn't talk much, but just having all of us there together was a blessing. I gave my AD a check since I know that she is out of work right now. It felt okay for me to do this. I could have given her more, but for now, that is what I felt comfortable giving to her until I have more information as to what she is doing with her life right now. I didn't expect her to say thank you, and my expectations came true. I was able to hug her and tell her that I love her. We'll see what else our HP has in store. So glad I had my program tools to get me through all of this.
I'm happy for you. HP gave you something you wanted and more I'm sure will come later. It's just going to take time. Your program helped you so much and you can be grateful for what God gave you and your family.
(((( hugs ))))
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Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth
Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.
That's working it Green Eyes...doing it that way myself also...be in the picture and not be the frame. It's not all about me is a very good awareness. It allows others to have their own identities and lives as they choose. I continue to have the freedom to do the same myself. Thanks for the share. ((((hugs))))
The people who were meant to be there were there. That has always been my experience. And usually, I don't have to do anything at all but show up to do my part. Glad she came. I have to say, I'm not surprised. Happy for you GE. Very happy.
