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My son took charge


Good Morning Everyone

I just want to let you know my son has taken charge and got himself into a rehab, then has plans for a sober living environment after that.  He did it on his own....thank you HP.

I took this weekend to let go and take care of me and you know what; he survived. He didn't want to be homeless and as of this morning he is safe in rehab.

I pray the future go's better for him one day at a time......but I have let go let God.

My recovery needs to go full bore now because if he does seek recovery I don't want to fall behind...

Have a great week everyone......I am not alone.

 

 



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Oh yay!!!  Your son is in the best of hands, as are yousmile

 



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Glad for such a positive update, Cathy. Good to see you today, too!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Good News Cathy 

Prayers answered



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Cathyinaz wrote:

Good Morning Everyone

 

I took this weekend to let go and take care of me and you know what; he survived. He didn't want to be homeless and as of this morning he is safe in rehab.

I pray the future go's better for him one day at a time......but I have let go let God.

 


 yep, cathy they find a way, if we back off...butt out......its their only hope.....U DID GOOD!!!!!!   great program work, all through this U kept your program .....Proud of ya :)



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That is WONDERFUL news.... I also know how hard it was for you to do "the hands off".  Great use of this program!!



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GREAT news, Cathy!!! Thank you for the update. I am sooo happy he's taking steps in the right direction.

I'm glad to see you back with such wonderful news; I was thinking about you this weekend and praying for a good outcome.



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Thats what happens when you trust your HP.

Good news and a big step for your son.

Glad to hear your taking care of yourself first.

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Bettina

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smile Good news Cathy... a great start....aww



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The word is WHEN he seeks recovery, you will be on top of things.... :) Stay on your side of the street....dont take those calls or texts, not yet anyway.....happy for you. in support OG



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((((Cathy))))....Yay!!  Mahalo Akua (thank you God) Keep on your recovery for you and not because of anything him.  You have also turned yourself over to your HP and that when I did it also was my major relationship work.  Prayers going yourway and his way and everyone elses way from Hawaii.   smile



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This too shall pass : )

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Fantastic!!!!! Sending you love and support!!

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Wonderful News {{{{Hugs}}}

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Positive news smile from positive actions (on both your parts) smile You detached and worked on your recovery; your son felt the pain of his actions and didn't like it, he will now remember how that felt. He has freely chosen, of his own will, to try a different wayhe will be given the steps in recovery to choose a less painful path.

Keep up your good work Cathy, let go of expectations,  stay in the day and practice, practice, practice wink

Love & support

Ness x



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Wonderful news and yes now take the time to breathe and focus on your recovery!!! Sending you much love and support!

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Glad to hear it, Cathy. Sending you support and hugs!

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