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Debilyn


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biggrin As I was waking up this morn to 16 dogs and puppies barking.....I went to look out to the pond thinking, ok today I can choose how I feel. I choose happy. Then my analytical mind says, well happy is just a word, what is happy?

gads. But I feel better today. Today I named puppy day. First I fed everyone so they would not bug me. Cleaned up the big chunks as Daddy would say, gathered stuff up and went to the puppy pen. They can go under my front porch, then come out and go ohhhh 16 feet or so out and from the house and out about four feet. I made it so, with my dog fences that our space was seriously about 3x3. I mean I squished them with me in this area. Today was the day.

Apparently HP said nope you are not going to get off ez. YOu took in these puppies, who are not socialized, have horrible grooming cuts, and some bite you and find their hearts and makem into dogs people want. So I plopped myself down with scissors a brush and a big bowl of chicken, hotdogs and cat food and had each one eat out of my hand. I mean even shoving stuff into their mouths. I was amazed!!

Havenese are very soft silky dogs.Small, love people, intelligent too. not ones to run away at all, have no smell either.

I have 9. four 8 mo. lods four 18 mo. olds and one two year old.

About four are used to me loving on them, one who I have of course fallen in love with and who loves me....about the size of two bananas. chi/havenese....get the first trims of hair that is over their gorgeous dark round eyes! man wigglewarts...gotter done! Then I carefully petted the rest sorta with my hand petting a tamer one that "slipped" to one of the more scared ones . wink  So I got all of them so they can see out their eyes now and they look sooo  much cuter.

The one who is the most scared, looks darling! He is short, well sorta square and very special. Purebred show dogs you guys. The ladys son died, she could not deal with them. All the got was plenty of love and food. Which is just fine. Plus her family was good for them.

But here they reverted to scared. HP decided to take over when they got here. I thought puttem on cl puttem on classified fb places they will go fast. uhuh.

Hp had other plans. The only time i have felt better was when I sat with the puppies and one would sniff me, or play a little. BUT it made me feel better. So apparently I have work to do before I can place them. (c: HP knows how to heal me if i will sit still enough to listen to him.

I love having all these cute funny things. they are all white too. This morn I woke up to them all over the place as they got out. I just yelled puppie puppie puppies!!! they all came running. lol this breed HAS to have a human and will not leave them, even me who they were not sure of yet!I love this.

Starting to feel more like me again. a lunatic....

thank you all for always being there. It always helps me. I have made a decision and will let you know how it comes out.  hugs  pics soon



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So glad to hear.

Our Deb is back, brighter and better than ever....

I love my Havy, Trina, she is too smart for me.

Hugs, Bettina

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I'm so glad to hear you are back on track to helping yourself. I'm will get there too. I bet the puppies are a hoot and you will make a good pack leader and train them well before they go to their new homes. It will sure keep you busy..won't it.

You are the best Deb and we all love you my friend.....you will be in the right place soon.

(((( hugs ))))


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Debbie...you have a ton of cute with Havanese pups.  I hope you'll find homes for as many as you want to go.  They are sooo cute.  (((hugs))) smile



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thank you for posting...you give me courage...no, really, it's true.

being strong seems to be our only choice...and we do it well (mostly --hahhaha)

god bless, 

RP



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All I can say ii awww!!!! They sound adorable! Glad you are feeling more you ... it's good feeling!!

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Welcome back Debilyn!!! We are glad you are here!   I would love to see you and your pups...Enjoy!!!

 



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Love your post, thank you.  Don't know where you live, but if you were close, I would be rolling around with you and the animals in a heartbeat. 



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Just researched this breed on the internet since I wasn't familiar with the name. Oh.........cute! Sure gets my tender juices bubbling inside this morning. Thanks, Debilyn, for helping me start my morning off in a gentle frame of mind and heart. Just loved the sight of these little ones.

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