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neshema2


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Everyone this is Janet....My youngest grandchild...The last of em....my only girl grandbaby..I have 4 lovely grandsons but this is my princess......I went over daughter #2's house tonight b/c she really needed her computer repaired and so after a struggle I fixed it....D#2 was all lovey and kissy/huggy w/me , telling me she loved me not just for machine repair, but she always loved her "mommie"  and she wanted to have a mama and daughter "date" with me on Sunday...I told her that would be nice....

I said  "Call me if, when you can go and why don't YOU come pick me up b/c my truck is not big enough for you and me and the teeny baby whom we would take"

She was fine with that and we parted with that....I walked to my house...She stood on her porch yelling to me that she loved me..And I know in her way she does....I just had to lower expectations...AS to Sunday???   Lets see...Expectations are ZERO...its ok...if we go?? gr8...If we don't??? I am not carrying expectations so I will be OK...I know the kid loves me, she just has to learn her lessons as I learn mine.....Anyway, the jewel pictured below is probably why I take her S***

 

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Beautiful Baby and Beautiful Gandma

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Awwwww, Neshema. Thank you for sending the picture of innocence and wisdom together. I don't know how Sunday will turn out for you, but I'm so glad you had a good day this time. I'm impressed, too! You can fix computers! I can't even figure out how to do things yet on our pm screen and probably never will.

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The two of you are beautiful....



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Awesome picture!! 



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aww lovely photo :)

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Neshema!!

What an amazing picture of the 2 of you!! I love your smile and the bright light you radiate!!!

Precious tiny one for sure!! 

We learn to HOPE for EVERYTHING, EXPECTING NOTHING....good for you!!

Plan A is to go -Plan B is you will be good if not:)  Thank you for sharing!!

 



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Thank you all SO much for the lovely thoughts about MY baby, LOL....Funny...I was all over the little one and guess who got a bit jealous????  my big baby....she comes up to me and shes all over me hugs, kissses and I teased her and said  "ohh is my big girl jealous????"   and she  said  "oh just a little"  with this sheepish look on her face........Thought it was cute......She can be sweet, but MOM is NOT going to have any expectations.......Just enjoy her when she is sweet.....detach when she gets  "goofy".......thats all a good mom can do..........U never stop loving and caring for them,  but U can detach w/loads of love to do the right thing by ME.....

Anyway, thanks for the lovely thoughts.....U guys are soo sweet   smile



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