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Pushka


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Well, .. court was interesting and it wasn't good however it wasn't bad.  I didn't get the OP extended to the kids .. that's ok .. I've now been able to document that I've been trying to AND I was able to extend MY OP to the 29th of this month with a status update.  So really .. NOTHING will happen at that date.  I am pursing getting representation of some kind soooo we'll see. 

My knees were knocking together and the judge was very nice however he wasn't pleased .. LOL.  I think with me.  That's ok I made some hard choices that I felt were the best at the time however it is what it is and I still have the right to have my say about visitation at this point and I will exercise that right. 

My atty won't be happy and I don't care.

Each time I go in I find a bigger voice and I was proud of myself for that I made his atty take two large steps to the right and he def wasn't expecting that .. LOL!

I didn't get to say what I wanted to .. again .. God gave me what I needed .. I still feel a little weird about things.  I just have to remember God is taking preparation time at the moment and that's exactly how we will play this part of the deal .. it is God's will NOT mine.  I did better than I thought. 

Hugs P :)

 



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Breakingfree


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Glad you faced it with your head held high. Keep up the great program work and remember to carry your toolbox. Sending you love and support!

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Jackie11


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Sending you love and support!!! You are doing a wonderful job taking the next right steps!!!



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ilovedogs


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Glad to hear that it's over and that you faced some fears and stood your ground. I'd be standing there with knees knocking too! Hugs!

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PP


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Court is so hard, one never knows what the outcomes will be...kind of like HP's will.  Good job going with the flow.....



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Glad you made it through this experience with what appears to be some peace, some increased knowledge and self-confidence, and new options.

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Glad it's OVER (I know how much a court date just looms over you), and that you have a good perspective on it. ((HUGS))

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