The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
My mom has been dealing with alcoholism for most of my life. She is a heavy binge drinker and suffers from many mental illnesses. I've become severely depressed and I've been self-harming for over 3 years now. I've tried to talk to her about my suicidal thoughts or depression and she tells me I'm a kid and I'm being dramatic. I just want her to see how much pain I'm in and help me
I'm sorry to hear about your situation and I'm glad you are reaching out. You are not alone! This board has been a very helpful place for me and others to find support when dealing with loved ones who struggle with alcohol and addiction. It really can be a confusing and even heartbreaking situation, but there are a lot of ways to get through. Alanon can be a very helpful support system and has helped me a lot, changed my life. There's also Alateen, depending on how old you are. Others will write and respond with more info, but I wanted to send you a quick note to welcome you and let you know you're not alone in this and it does get better, especially with some support! Keep reaching out, you are worth it!
Hi. I don't know your age or your situation and I'm sorry you are feeling so bad right now. It sounds like you are scared about what is going on inside of you? I'm only a Mom myself - not a therapist, etc. so I just want you to know that I hear you and I believe you and I don't think you're being dramatic. If there is another adult in your life that you can trust, maybe you can go to them and tell them what is happening for you? Alateen is a good option, too. If you're in elementary or high school, is there a counselor you can see who can help you with this? I think you are very brave for sharing this with us and I'm glad you are looking for a way to help yourself, too. Others will probably respond to this post in better ways than I can, but I just want you to know you are heard, you are not alone, and there is hope for you and for your Mom.
I am so sorry that alcoholism has caused you hurt, pain and disappointment like it has for me. I found al-anon and it has helped to heal me and been a great place to let go of all my hurt and anger and to be able to move through it. I hope you can find local face to face meetings and take care of yourself. I have a counselor and a sponsor to help me through all that I have been through and that has really helped me, maybe that is an option for you. Alcoholics unless they get themselves into recovery are not always able to see the hurt they are inflicting on others, because they are drowning in their own hurt, pain and feelings. I learned the healthier I got in al-anon the more I was able to understand and make sense of my childhood and life and now things are much more manageable. The 800 number is under my nickname here to help find meetings and support for yourself. I am sending you much love and support!
__________________
Sending you love and support on your journey always! BreakingFree
Al-Anon/Alateen Family Group Headquarters, Inc. 800-344-2666
" Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional."
"Serenity is when your body and mind are in the same place."
SO Very Sorry you are Feeling so Alone in such a Disease as Alcoholism, I Myself Grew up with an Alcoholic Father, So I know the Pain of not havning him availible to Help me when I Struggled thru my teen years... But I have to say that I am VERY PROUD that you took such a Stand and Reached Out! You are in the Right Place for Comfort, and Helping you make it One day at a Time in this Program...
I also Agree that if there is another Adult that you feel safe speaking to by all means ask them if you can share this with them as well... I Also don't know your Age, but if your a Teen- Al-teen is a WONDERFUL Program and its available on this board as well, and then you can speak to Other Kids that are struggling just like you... YOU ARE NOT ALONE! So Many Struggle with this, and Just keep quiet & that is no good for anyone, I have found that Expressing myself Even HERE is a HUGE Help, I have been here Just over 4 years and the Love & Support I get is Amazing...
I Do Ask that you Keep COMING BACK, and SHaring your Story, and you will be amazed at the People that Not only will help you! But that you Will Help Speak up and get help too... WE ARE HERE! So Please, Use all the Help you can get, but so very Grateful You decided to pick this spot! Very Proud of you For Making this Move...
