The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
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level.
Playing with your boobs would not work on me. If it's a gay guy and you want to win the argument, complimen his shoes, fashion sense, or accessorizing abilities....or say "that guy was just checking you out" and he will forget about the argument and you will win by default.