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grateful2be


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Hi, Kathleen. Glad that you are enjoying this day's gifts.  Whenever we let go of our end of the rope, tension dissolves.  Glad you let go!  Love to see the change you've experienced.



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Now that I have a chance to change my focus, I will not let the separation from my mom ruin my day. Right now she is out of my life. I am not going to try to resolve the issues, they are not my issues. The money situation will be resolved her way no other way! I am so sick of her trying to control money so I let it go!

She asked for it, she dealt it & is playing the cards!

Today is a good day! I am grateful for the sunshine & good times ahead! God bless everyone!

Kathleen



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Thank you for the blessing and so glad you could see some all around you...



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Hoot Nanny wrote:

 I am not going to try to resolve the issues, they are not my issues. The money situation will be resolved her way no other way! I am so sick of her trying to control money so I let it go!

She asked for it, she dealt it & is playing the cards!

Today is a good day! I am grateful for the sunshine & good times ahead! God bless everyone!

Kathleen

 Sounds like a good plan to me....when an other is acting out, doing a "self destruct" thingy, I back off..butt out....let them learn their lessons......AS I take care of me and do the stuff I CAN impact.....yep...she will have to learn her own lessons.....NICE work, Kathleen smilesmile.



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grateful2be wrote:

Hi, Kathleen. Glad that you are enjoying this day's gifts.  Whenever we let go of our end of the rope, tension dissolves.  Glad you let go!  Love to see the change you've experienced.



-- Edited by grateful2be on Saturday 20th of July 2013 10:15:37 PM

 OH  LOVE this   "let go of our end of the rope"   Gotta put that in my memory thing.......daughter #2 is up to her  " Diss mom"  antics.....I am droppin my end of the rope and gong swimming today.....big sister is found...safe.....scare is over with....time for me to have some fun.........



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