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Post Info TOPIC: Grandson is homeless! Grandma had a meltdown!


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Grandson is homeless! Grandma had a meltdown!


Even though I knew it was going to happen, when I saw my grandson yesterday at a family gatering, he came with my son who he trying to "squat" at his 1 br apt.  Anyway seeing him looking so sad and troubled,  I couldn't take it and had to leave early, my brother walked me out to my car and I couldn't hold back the tears.

I guess with all the drama with my a/a daughter, police report, etc. it was just too much pain, pray for me, and all of us.

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You and your family are in my prayers, HF.  Much support and understanding.  This, too shall pass.   



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((( Highlyfavored )))

I'm so sorry about what is happening. I know what your going through. My son will be homeless and I'm trying to get my head around it.

I thought he was living with you but I guess there was a change.

I have learn no matter what happens I have no control over it.....NONE. I had to let go as painful as it is. To continue in the cycle I was in wasn't going to change a thing. I had to change me

Your all in my prayers and I pray HP will help you though this


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Yes you are ((((Highlyfavored))))  Sad with you...very.  Keep the mantra...I didn't cause this, I can't control it...and will not ever be able to cure it.

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So sad, but Cathy said it all

"I have learn no matter what happens I have no control over it.....NONE. I had to let go as painful as it is. To continue in the cycle I was in wasn't going to change a thing. I had to change me"

 

CAn't do anything but change me,.....sooo much sadness.....all b/c of the drink.....I am sending you healing and comfort energy...dunno what what to say except that I do care...we all do



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Prayers and positive thoughts being sent to you and your family.  I know that this too will pass  and remember that alanon reminds us that it all   becomes more manageable when we remember to stay in the moment and in the day and not to project.

That worked for me 



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Thanks for the prayers and support!  Cathy, this is my 28 y.o. son, my A/D oldest son, her 18 y.o. is staying with me.



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I am sending you much love, prayers and support!

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(((( hugs ))))

I understand now.....please let your HP take over.

Take care my friend......you are in my prayers.

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