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My A/D is so angry and trying to make me the bad guy for her situation. When I got home from my f/f meeting today I had a couple of threatening voice mail messages and my grandson had a real serious one on his cell phone.
Her MO is to make threatening and terrorist threats when she is angry, I've never know her to carry any of them out. I'm thinking I should call the police and make a report. She warned of what will happen if she loses her sec 8 certificate if she can't pay her rent, not sure when this is going to happen.
I haven't tried to call her because I know she wont hear anything I say.
Gettingitright!!
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OMG....ANY time a person threatens, the police should know so it will be on RECORD, if she follows through....To threaten her boy is absolutely over the top....I would contact the police.....I hope you know that taking care of you is essential b/c you have that young grandson who has no clue as to how to take care of himself...he just turned 18 right????
threats should always be taken serious...look at the news...a lot of those shootings, stabbings, etc. started w/threats or other red flags that were ignored.....I would NOT call her...I would stay away and contact the police, and if it were me??? I would ask them about a restraint order...
Really, I hope you take this seriously and protect you and this young son of hers....at 18 , I am sure he is clueless as to how dangerous this COULD be....Not saying it will happen, but she could , especially if she loses her sec.8, she could "go off" on you and the kid
BE CAREFUL, Please.....
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I know you have never seen her carry out threats, but if a person threatens another, there is always that chance they can carry them out....This gal has anger issues..big time...And folks w/anger issues CAN be dangerous....I dont mean to scare you but maybe you need a healthy scare to protect yourself....
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Alcoholism doesn't use reason. I'd call. Her threats - whether she carries them out or not - are an assault on the well-being of her son and her mother. She has a boyfriend, too. This is too big to handle alone.
