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Deneen


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So my husband and i return from an awesome 3rd 7 days honeymoon, to a sink full of dirty dishes! We have an open 2 family home where my mother n sister in-law lives that i married into for the foundation of this story! So i share with my loving husband how i feel about dirty dishes left in my sink by his family. That they could at least wash the dishes that is what i would have done for them! He tells me i need to let that go and stop worrying about other people's short comings! Ididnt want to completely spoil my mood so I went to bed with much resentiment and frustration! 6



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I'm sorry to hear that. At least you went to bed to rest instead of forcing yourself to stand there and wash them and feel like a victim which is what I had the tendency to do in the past. Not today though - Love This Program for that :)

Hugs for your Trudge dear. I hope you are able to set some good boundaries about that.

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