And so that's it.  But I still feel like it's out of my control how soon all this ends.  Tuesday morning I called his probation officer's boss and told her everything.  Just the right time apparently.  Unfortunately his probation officer actually died 3 weeks ago.  So he was going to be reassigned anyway.  And he WAS reassigned on Wednesday at his appointment.  When he also failed his drug test.  Shocker.  They had never even tested him before - one year he's been on probation and they've never held him accountable.  So yeah he's been smoking crack for a year.  Duh.

And they told him he had to go to 2 NA meetings every week AND report to the probation office every 2 weeks instead of every 3 months.  Who are they kidding?  He's never going to go to an NA meeting.  What a freaking joke.

Finally he might actually get his probation revoked and I will get my life back.  Because that's the only way when you live with a VIOLENT PSYCHOPATH.  Totally out of control - no regard for any other person on the planet.

Because he will never change until he is dead or in prison.  Never.  Ever.  Ever.

But at least I will be free.  And I can't wait.  I'm throwing a party.