Al-Anon Family Group

The material presented here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method to exchange information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal level.

Members Login
Username 
 
Password 
    Remember Me  
Miracles In Progress 12 Step Recovery Forums -> Al-Anon Family Group -> Al-Anon Family Group -> The car is sold
Post Info TOPIC: The car is sold
Cathyinaz


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 3026
Date:
The car is sold
Permalink  

Just heard from my son. He sold his baby ( car ) and will now have the money he needs so he won't be homeless for the short term.

Oh so much money....... disbelief

God give me the strength and courage to keep my mouth shut.  



__________________

 Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth

Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.

 
Path to Serenity


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 323
Date:
Permalink  

Oh Cathy, I can hear the fear in your voice.

(((HUG)))

__________________
LeenieBeanie


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 197
Date:
Permalink  

Hang in there Cathy. Take it one step at a time, one minute at a time if you have to. Deep breath, breathe and calm thoughts. Keep in mind that this is none of your business ; you know he needs to find his way for himself.

As always, still in my prayers

 



__________________

If God is your Co Pilot, change seats.
Jen61


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 720
Date:
Permalink  

Prayers and thoughts are sent to you! Jenny


__________________
AngelicH57


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 121
Date:
Permalink  

I will pray he makes wise decisons
{{{Cathy }}}}

__________________

Nothing is more fatiguing than the eternal hanging-on of an unfinished task.
Jerry F


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 13696
Date:
Permalink  

 

 

 

It's still his choices...he gets the consequences...good or bad we get to accept with HP...always with HP.  ((((Cathyinaz)))) smile



__________________
el-cee


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 5075
Date:
Permalink  

The good thing about this is he knows what he needs to do with his money. He will or won't but either way it's his choice. Keep your serenity.

__________________
ParisMemories


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 303
Date:
Permalink  

Take care of you Cathy. It is so hard to trust that our As will make the right choices, isnt it?Sending you hugs, prayers, and everything good today.

__________________
ilovedogs


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 1582
Date:
Permalink  

It's his choices Cathy, not yours. Remember to stay on your side of the street, I know how hard that is! Hugs to you!

__________________
Struggling to find me......
Cathyinaz


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 3026
Date:
Permalink  

Talk to him this morning.....He's not doing well selling his car and is very very upset about it. I feel for him but he kind of made some bad choices and now he has to deal with the consequences.

Can't stand to hear a grown man cry.

I tried so hard to keep that car for him....and for what. I made some very bad choices didn't I .....oh well I'm making better choices now.


__________________

 Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth

Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.

 
AngelicH57


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 121
Date:
Permalink  

{{{{Cathy}}}}

__________________

Nothing is more fatiguing than the eternal hanging-on of an unfinished task.
el-cee


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 5075
Date:
Permalink  

You are brilliant!!! You could have rushed in and helped with this one and set him and you back but you didnt. You did the right thing. Remember, he is a grown man and its good to express your emotions so, so far so good. Keep doing what your doing.x

__________________
Page 1 of 1  sorted by
 
Quick Reply

Please log in to post quick replies.
Miracles In Progress 12 Step Recovery Forums -> Al-Anon Family Group -> Al-Anon Family Group -> The car is sold