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Aloha HF!! and very good...It's tough!! meaning it's tough love and from my experience with that subject "tough" love works best. Thanks so much for bringing it here. And....
keep coming back (((((hugs)))))
-- Edited by Jerry F on Saturday 2nd of February 2013 06:45:52 PM
I learned yesterday my a/a daughter's 28y.o. son with his own a/a issues is homeless because she asked him to leave her house. I've been feeling anxious and fearful he would call me for help. Sure enough he did this morning, I told him "no" when he asked what I was doing and if he couldn't come over to eat and hang out. I reminded him he told me it took to much time for him to catch the bus and go to apply for food stamps.
I just found a brochu of a clean and sober living home that I made a donation to, I'll give him this # and after that I don't plan to take his phone calls. I'm done, and pray to keep this attitude about it.
Gettingitright!!
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Just go a step at a time, one day at a time. And you'll find a rich, thankful life you never thought you could afford.--A Rogers
