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My kids convinced my AH to seek treatment. He is telling all of us that he will do it but only for the kids because mommy won't like me anyway. Why am I letting this bother me? I told him I loved him and that maybe if he can't get help we could call off the divorce. He just keeps saying forget it because you won't like me no matter what. I am not going to keep engaging in that nonsense. I assured my kids that he is just mad at me and that I am hopeful that one day he will not be angry anymore. He assured me that he will never forgive me because I broke our family apart. Why do I keep letting this bother me? I know this is not my fault and I did absolutely what I needed to do so, again, why do I keep letting this bother me? I know I know....get to a face to face meeting. I am honestly scared to go and leave the kids alone with him because he keeps trying to fill their minds with manipulating garbage.

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I don't know what ages your children are....but it sounds that if they have convinced you AH to seek treatment they are reading that he needs it.

You are helping them if you also give yourself some positive space and learning.

Al-Anon will help you.    It is your choice.

T.H.



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