The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Every moment you spend upset, despaired, anguished, angry or hurt because of the behavior of anyone else in your life, is a moment in which you've given up control of your life.
LOL, like that thought Amyclaire. Its definitely a great message Magster! One I will keep in mind as the wonderful but yet at times dreaded weekend approaches! Thanks for the post!
Magster that's as honest as one can get and it's 100% true. Thank you for opening my eyes. I always knew I had lost control over my life, but to now see it in print? I haven't seen my A going on three weeks now and I miss him, but I do not miss the yelling, verbal/emotional abuse, demands etc. I know I deserve better, we all do.
That is also like what I learned in the rooms of Al-Anon. "No one can cause you to loose your peace of mind and serenity without your permission and participation".
