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Hello everyone, I may not be the sharpest tool in the box but something has just clicked with me and I wanted to share it. I believe my HP is trying to tell me something that is probably really obvious to you guys. My HP is going to present me with new versions of the same problem until I find the right way to deal with it! My eldest son gave me so many problems, my reaction was to enable and rescue, this was wrong so went on and on. Now I have got the message which is detach, do not rescue, move out of his path. My AH was selfish and immature and gave me many problems for years!!! I dealt with him by enabling and rescuing so nothing changed until I changed. Now my youngest son is presenting me with challenging behaviour and I truly believe he will until I get it and deal with him correctly! Keep it simple right enough!
I agree . I understand that HP keeps presenting us with the same issue in a different fashion until we respond from our within our spiritual nature. Sounds as if you have had a spiritual experience
