The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I second what Jerry has suggested. While your partner is in rehab it will be a great time to check out Alanon. Alanon is a fellowship of people who live with or have lived with the problem of alcoholism. We believe that alcoholism is a disease over which we are powerless. We also know that because we lived with ths disease we need a recovery program of our own, in order to reclaim our lives and our true selves
Keep coming back here as well. There is hope
-- Edited by hotrod on Sunday 13th of January 2013 09:12:06 AM
In the white pages of your local telephone book is the hotline number for Al-Anon...call that number and find out where and when we get togther in your area and then come and take your chair as early as you can. You're qualified to be here. Keep coming back ((((hugs))))
Welcome (((radar))) Al-Anon is a good place to be if we are sharing our life with alcoholics. We all here know that emotional roller coaster you are mentioning. We also all care, and can feel with you. We are indeed powerless about the disease of alcohol, but we are not powerless about our own person, thoughts, feelings and actions.
I hope you can come back often enough and stay here long enough to learn enough about the disease and its effects and gain strength for yourself. Al-Anon is not a sect, not a religion, not superstitious, not a law....it is life as it happens, with people that learn to deal with it in a caring way, through sharing, listening and changing and acting. Alcoholism is extreme, in every way... Glad you found MIP. keep coming back.
Well hon you did the right thing coming to MIP. We are here to support you.
Getting them sober is a great book to read. volume one, toby rice drew. you can get it at used book stores or just go on amazon.
At the bottom of my share you will see who to contact for a meeting in your area. That is a GREAT way to help him and you. If you have questions just ask here. Tell us what you need.
He is on a very difficult journey. The best thing for you is Al Anon! We understand and relate. It helps us to help you. Believe me you are more than welcome.
roller coaster? We will teach you how to get off that horrible ride! Your relationship has a much better chance if you both are on a program of recovery.
Glad you came here! please keep coming, love,debilyn
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