My son and I are very close. He is grown and lives apart with his own family. But my A is doing destructive talking to my dtr in law, which is making both of them want me to leave. It's in a nice way but it is still pressure. I'm not ready to leave, and some of y you in the program stay with your A's. I can't make a decision now for a variety of reasons, money, health, and as someone wrote back to me, take the good and leave the rest. If I could relax and not be affected, maybe I would chose to stay. I can't let anyone's opinion influence me, even my son. This has to be a decision I make. But I am sad. Lyne