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Why do some Alanon meetings say...


"Please don't wear perfume. Some of our members have chemical sensitivities."

I think that's how it's said.

Why is this? I never heard this at an AA meeting.

Is chemical sensitivity psychosomatic? Real? Why do people n Alanon or recovery have it?



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I have never heard of this at any meeting that I have attended. Every groupis autonomous and it is no doubt a part of a particular group format that was developed because a few members  had this  condition. 

It is not an "alanon condition" 



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Definitely something that's a unique group request. Al-Anon as a whole does not have this request in their materials. It's a group autonomy thing.

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I haven't heard of this in any meetings I have attended. Probably just that groups thing.

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I ask because I wonder if what I thought was a toxic issue was really just a chemical sensitivity, and if I am perhaps not alone in recovery in experiencing this. I wonder if my "toxic" issue is really "chemical sensitivity" which is really something else, and if I'm throwing away all my belongings for nothing.
I can hope anyway. :)

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Working

A Doctor should be able to diagnose this condition for you. It would be worth checking out



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That often is a public or private area safety request because perfume in general has been targeted for the affect with inhalent sensitivity.  I've seen it many times before and never in an Al-Anon meeting.  It might be the requirement of the building provider.   (((hugs))) smile



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Actually, environmental sensitivities can be very severe. Some folks become very ill with certain chemicals in their environment...perfume, air fresheners, and even ink used in magazines and newspapers.

People who have ES become very ill when exposed to certain things...so that group may have had someone in the group who had ES and implemented that policy. 

and even for those of us who don't have ES, just because a perfume smells good to you...well, it may smell terrible to me...especially if you bathe in it before you come to a meeting! This may be that groups' way of preventing perfume enthusiasts from overdoing it...



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What is ES? Environmental Senstitivities?

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I've never heard that in a meeting but I can relate because when I worked in the corporate world (work at home now) some days were absolutely horrible having so sit there and smell the over-perfumed co-worker sitting next to me. Some days I'd go home with a horrible headache and I'm not even particularly sensitive to such things.

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There is a woman at one of my meetings that wears heavy perfume and I sit as far away from her as possible.
I don't want to leave that place with a headache!

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been in alanon for 18 years never heard that before

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