The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I've been seeking guidance from HP
Started reading getting them sober vol one
Getting my toes stepped on so I know I'm getting a message He wants me to get. Sadness and frustration seem to be getting better and I'm finding myself more productive again as a parent, spouse and person !
To my MIP family thx for always supporting me with suggestions and info and well wishes and hugs
Crazy to never meet ppl and feel such a connection.
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..."expecting the world to treat you fairly because your a good person, is like expecting a bull to not attack you because your a vegetarian "
Awesome stuff.... that book.... literally saved my sanity, if not my life....
And you're right about the connection part.... we have a 'bond' that is almost indescribable sometimes, but VERY real...
How does the opening in Al-Anon meetings go?? Something along the lines of: "you may not like us, but in time, you will learn to love us, as we already love you" (or words to that effect.
This is a "safe" place to come and share your troubles, triumphs, and everything in between.... Most of us have 'touched that stove', whereby we go to our active A's for this kind of support, and end up devastated and disappointed...
Great share, great growth, great book!!!
Tom
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"He is either gonna drink, or he won't.... what are YOU gonna do?"
"What you think of me is none of my business"
"If you knew the answer to what you are worrying about, would it REALLY change anything?"
I feel the same about our MIP family ...couldnt imagine not having this safe haven. Love you all, waiting for my copy of getting them sober. Thankyou all for your time and care when ive need it. xx
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What a caterpiller calls the end of the world....God calls a butterfly