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I am so very sorry to read of the loss of your mother. I know the pain and sadness that is apart of such a grief.
Please be very gentle with yourself, try to rest, and know that you are not alone. Reach out here and know that HP is with you and will provide comfort and solace .
I missed you and am so glad that you shared
-- Edited by hotrod on Thursday 22nd of November 2012 09:25:47 AM
my mother just passed away at 2:40 pm today she has been through 13 yrs dialisis and lots of surgeries,she suffered long,im happy for her but im sad for me for im gonna miss that woman,she was truely the best mom anyone would wantbut i was finnaly able and had to let her go,now for me time to reroute my life my ab/f wont be a part of it either,i cant deal with him anymore he is of no good to me or anybody else when he gets off work in the afternoon he gets to drinkning and takeing unperscribed xanaxes and valiums,enough is enough now to tell him that therell be no more us that im decided to go on to better things in life we can talk i guess it dont matter,he aint gonna like what i have to say but oh well theres plenty a fish out there for him too,but thats not what i want im turning my life over to my h/p,and liveing rightously and getting on with my life,i need all the prayers i can get cause i know for the next few weeks is gonna be rough without my mom here.thanks for liostening ,,hugs silent/chinup
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. We are specially fragile and vulnerable when something like this happens. I hope you'll take very good care of yourself. Your ABf has caused a lot of grief, I know. Please do what's best for your serenity in these weeks ahead. Hugs.
While you are in the midst of some serious loss, I have to say that post rang with a lot of strength and conviction. It's really moving and I'm impressed. You are pretty strong. I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. The only ESH I can think of to share is that you might now choose to believe you are infused with the spirit of your mother. Her energy strength and all the things that made her so special can be absorbed into you now.... She is with your HP now, but is also part of it.
Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
I'm so sorry for your loss. Now more than ever the focus on yourself is so important. Other people are capable of taking care of themselves so for now believe that and take care of you and you alone. Worry for yourself, be gentle and understanding for yourself, offer yourself everything you're used to offering others. The loss of a parent is so difficult, my thoughts are with you as you go through this experience.
