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Last night me and a co-worker/friend went to go see the the new Denzel Washington movie, Flight.
I bring this up because the movie tackles alcoholism and how it can rip someone's life apart. The alcoholic in the movie gets caught up in their lies and for me, it was some pretty heavy duty stuff to watch. The role of the alcoholic was very well played. In the movie, there are scenes in which they attend meetings, and the dialogue really hit home with me as someone having to listen to an alcoholic lie and manipulate all the time. Failed sobriety, isolation, arrogance....it's all there.
Even though it was a movie, I could honnestly feel as though the alcoholic was my alcoholic. It was quite the experience.
Hi Jim, just last night I had someone in AA tell me about this movie as well. It sounds like one that I would like to see. Thanks for the post about it.
co worker?? female?? Snoopy mind wants to know. hehe
You sound like a neat man, from my experience, all those things I shared with you were what I did. I too HATE to date. So doing some busywork at the same time, or something we could talk about was the key.
Would really like to see you build up your self love and confidense. Remember no one knows you feel like you to. Plus the best thing to do is ask about them. Not so much how are you but what do you do for fun? work? Just don't want you to end up alone like me.
hugs,debilyn
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I watched the movie "When a Man Loves a Woman" a very long time ago. The woman being the alcoholic in the relationship. Long ago, that movie was romantically sweet, he loved her so much, Meg Ryan and Andy Garcia, what's not to love? Watched the same movie recently and saw SO much more! Watched "28 Days" with Sandra Bullock seeing so much more the latter times than the original because the latter times I had dealt with alcoholism on such a personal level.
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All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another! ~ Anatole France
Thanks! Decided to go see and its a fantastic movie, very true to life and doesn't fantasize with a magical getting sober event. It is a little painful to watch, at least it was for me.