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souljoy


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Well it's gone from weird to weirder and today is the day he tells me I have never accepted him for his mental illness and that hurts him. Okayyyyyy never mind you are drinking everyday once again after 4 years of sobriety. Never mind you want me to bring in a third party in our relationship. Never mind you have an online gf you have sex with on the phone. I cope with most of this by going to meetings and taking care of me. I still don't get it though how in the world he things this way. I probably won't get it either. Best to just take care of me and leave him alone. Frustrating as hell though.

 

Thank goodness I have alanon to keep me sane. Anyway just venting. Thanks



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hotrod


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Dear Souljoy

It sounds to me that you have truly accepted his condition and are seriously taking care of you.  Glad you came here and shared.

Keep taking care of yourself and know you are not alone



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Betty

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Jerry F


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Aloha Souljoy..."Thank goodness I have alanon to keep me sane."  I agree with that 1000 times over.

Al-Anon keep insanity from being communicable.  ((((hugs)))) smile 



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