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I say this laughing, but am quite miffed with my chemistry instructor. He is a first year teacher and well can't teach us worth a darn. So our first 3 hour 150 question exam that he swore would be so simple was brutal. Most the class flubbed it and he wrote something about throwing out the last 2 pages of the 10 pages and doing a retest. This is because he failed to teach the stuff correctly. I have been seeing a tutor and going to every chemistry study session. The extra time I have left my 14 year old babysitting my 4 year old is ridiculous for this 1 class. My other 3 classes are straightforward and taught well and I am getting A's thus far. So I have learned I can't self teach myself chemistry and am wondering how to proceed with this. I need a B average in every class to keep my financial aid, which is such a blessing and the only way I can afford to go to college. Please send me ESH and help me see a way through this? Thanks All!
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"Serenity is when your body and mind are in the same place."
Being a new teacher you will have to approach this carefully but does he have an open door policy or office hours? Perhaps the study group can set up a meeting with him, or have him come to study session?
Or the group could perhaps have an ongoing list of questions from the session and bring those in to the class?
In both college and grad school I got my anxiety up to incredible levels thinking I was failing classes. BUT - what you stated is the rest of the class is having these issues too. He cannot fail all of you or it will look terrible on him. Relative to the rest of the class you are doing ok? What always wound up happening for me when this type of scenario developed in school was that the professor wound up changing the curve, or giving extra credit to get more of a normal grade distribution in the class. That is likely what will happen even though you will feel like you are failing up til the end of the semester. So frustrating....
Having done it myself, I know the first year of teaching is brutal and a big shock and you have no idea what works. I'm sorry you're on the receiving end of his need for practice. The good news is that it sounds as if he's realized that he goofed in how he made the test. It's helpful that most of the class did badly -- no instructor can ignore that. And that he is going to discard parts and give a retest does show that he knows he has to do better. It's a tense situation for you, but instructors that recognize they goof are the best kind. I'd suggest going over the parts of the exam you missed and figuring out exactly what the right answer would have been. It sounds as if you shouldn't have to -- those parts of the exam were too hard -- but it will be a useful way of studying, because it shows the parts he thinks you should know. Getting together a study group and working through them together would be very helpful.
Best of luck! The "good" part is that I think those of us who have figured out how to deal with alcoholics can pretty much deal with anything!
Okay so at lab tonight the teacher went over the whole test and told the class what we bombed on so we know what to study for the next test Tueday evening. I am hoping he can now slow down and not rush us through before we get it. I know some of it is my brain has been out of high school for a long time and I have never had to take college prerequisites for my technical school certificates I have. I am applying myself and many others are not doing well either. He is a nice guy and yes I have used my Al-anon tools many times in this class. After the next test I can get 10% added to my grade which would be a B which I can live with. So I am feeling better. Thanks All.
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" Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional."
"Serenity is when your body and mind are in the same place."
Hopefully your instructor realizes that he needs to refine his teaching strategies. It's one thing to know a subject and a whole other thing to teach it. I know. I teach. Fortunately for me I teach at the much lower grade levels and can check for understanding throughout my lessons. I know when my students are ready to be tested. But college/university teaching is so different.
As had been mentiopned, he can't flunk the whole class or even most of his students; it would be a very bad reflection on him. I'm absolutely sure he realizes this. He'll have to make adjustments as he goes. I would not stress over this. I would focus on passing the class and not entertain the "what if I don't pass this class" thought. Tell yourself that someway, some how you'll find ways to get through it. Ask HP for guidance.
My son is a nurse and I saw him struggle at times when taking his courses. Nursing courses aren't easy. Studying was his life for a while.
Funny, just the other day I asked him a question regarding one of my blood tests. He was embarassed that he didn't know the answer. He told me that so much of what is taught in the courses he forgot because he simply just doesn't use it in his daily work as a nurse.
This is an opportunity to continue training your thoughts to stay on the positive side of the road. You're headed down a road that will enable you to provide well for your daughters and you. It's a rewarding profession, but it is also very demanding.
Be positive. Don't entertain negative thoughts. You WILL get through this! Every experience, whether we perceive it as good or bad, is an oppotunity to grow. It's life. Getting through this class will only make you stronger and more capable of nursing.
-- Edited by GailMichelle on Friday 28th of September 2012 04:24:10 AM
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can you transfer to a differen prof? Go to the head of the chem dept and talk to them. Obviously if most the class is struggling this poor teacher needs some guidance!
hugs honey!! debilyn
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