The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
An alanon face to face meeting and a sponsor would be where I would turn. Your friend is taking care of himself and you in turn can learn to take care of yourself in the same manner
Keep coming here as well You are not alone.
-- Edited by hotrod on Monday 13th of August 2012 01:34:55 PM
My A "Friend" is pulling away from me.. and I know it is for his own good..he is trying to stay on track with his sobrieety and since it has only been 6 months he is avoiding a relationshipbecause he has to be selfish right now to stay clean. I am so proud of him for knowing that whay he needs to do to be the best he can for himself.. but ath the same time.. it makes me really sad because everything is so hot and cold and I am in this now and I care so much about him.. but I dont know how to detach from my emotions so that it doesnt cause issues between him and I and stress either of us out any more than it allready is. I want to support him and be there for him.. but I am hurting right now about it all and I dont know who to turn too. I know that God has put this person into my life right now for a reason but I am having a hard time dealing with it all.
