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Its amazing to me that when ive not been to a alanon family mtg in awhile how quickly I fall apart. The weekend was a rollercoaster. Alc husb spent much of juky fourth week drinking and socializing on the lake. I tolerate it for awhile and for the most part its all harmless but then again....its not. Sadly my husb knows he has a probl but has been drinking so long its hard to stop....he gets morre irritble and anxioys when he tries to cutback...which he is in the process of trying to do now...that of coyrse makes me hopeful but edgy. Its so NOT easy living w an alcoholic...its a rollercoastaer and at times I feel I have trouble getting off....
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When all else fails...there is Faith, Hope and Prayer.
Yup, you're right and that is why we stop thinking about what they are doing and we focus on what WE are doing. Not what we are doing in response to what they are doing. What to do with our own lives. What do I want to do if he decides to act stupid or if he decides not to act stupid.... what do I want to do?
