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I went to my husbands bday night it went great. He asked me to speak a couple of minutes before he got his chip. I was honored & overwhelmed all at the same time. We fellowshiped & went out to dinner. We had a wonderful evening. And when I got home that woman on his FB had unliked almost all his status updates & pics. She even deleted some comments. At first I thought she had blocked me but no she still left some comments. I know my husband didn't do it cuz we were together all evening. I am so grateful to my HP I was worked up over this FB issue and my HP had it all under control I just had to be patient & have Faith :)
It was a nice night. But today is another day. That woman posted that God had told her that He has other plans for her. Then for the first time my husband posted a comment he just simply wrote God is always good. I feel upset. I feel like maybe he liked the attention & now he won't get it. Idk maybe I'm over analyzing it maybe he is relieved she is off his back. Idk I'm not a mind reader. My feelings are all over the place. What is a fact is we had a nice evening & morning & for that I'm grateful.
personally I have to stay away from FB. I go crazy with the updating and stuff. I know I went absolutely insane trying to keep track of the ex A. I will never do that again. For me trust is incremental these days. If I know someone is an alcoholic/addict the trust is very very minimal. I build on it in increments. I have had to really really work on not checking up, not wondering, not knowing. I had to let go.
I had to block my AH's FB page- it was making me too obsessed and taking me off track of my own recovery in Al-Anon. Sending you lots of support right now.
