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I think my AH just looks for things that upset me and push push push !!!! I am having a hard moment ... but am deep breathing through the insanity !!!!!!!!!!!
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..."expecting the world to treat you fairly because your a good person, is like expecting a bull to not attack you because your a vegetarian "
If he's pushing your buttons, then move your buttons!
Totally know how you feel. I go through this often and wonder why I let it get to me and usually I do good for a few days and then I blow and I have completely blown my serenity. Be patient with yourself!
Hi Sweeetr, I needed your share too this morning, My AH has been sober 6 weeks now but this past week has been testy, he is and has been trying to push the buttons that would normally make me an "insane person" but I have been biting my tongue and looking the other way. I almost snapped last night and caught myself before I added more wood chips to the fire he was starting, I went to bed :) Thank you!! (((hugs)))
