My AH wants us to meet after work last night for dinner. He txted me what I wanted to drink, he seems to always beat me there, my reply "sweet tea". I get there and he has a "drink" and my tea is sitting there with a shot of vodka beside it. I said is that mine ?? he said yes,you use to like it in your tea (four yrs ago)...  I said Ive never seen them overflow a shot of vodka.... he says guess you got lucky and he put it in my tea.... I stir in thinking.. how weird this is but no reason to start a fight.. taste the tea.. and Im drinking watered down tea.  when he went to bathroom I smelled shot glass and tasted last drop in it ...  it was water,guess he poured the vodka in his and replaced with water.. At the end of meal I said .. gosh I never had a shot of vodka especially that full and couldnt taste it or feel like I drank anything... He said oh ....... I guess things just hit me as "really/funnny" ??? Guess he felt better if he thought I thought he wasnt drinking alone... who knows??