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so far so good as ive managed to not try and run him down,but i havent been all that good just lucky me that he didnt answer me as i belive he is out of mins on his cell i texted him and said ..hi...but no answer back good for me,and ive been feeling like a stalker as ive or was checking his f/b page out but i defreinded him so i cantt see nothing,lol still good for me ,it is tough but theres no way i could even think about going back to him after he hasnt done nothing about his std,but lied to me on ph. and said that he did and that he didnt have to see a dr that he just told them what he had and they gave him an antibiotic,lol and that he couldnt remember that name of the antibiotic,lol he really thought i was that stupid ,wow i must have sucker written across my forehead,and id been forewarning one freind on my f/b that him and her was sending stuff like love you etc.etc. so i i/m her and told her somethings about him but he had done droppped her as he hasnt even been on f/b or online in over a week oh well. i duno whats wrong with me,i do beleive if someone else would come along for me to text talk to etc. i belive it would help me to get over him,but i dont need another relationship right now as i need to find me and get happy with me.,thanks for listening to me ramble on......hugs silent any esh all all esh is welcome....ty ....
Well.... keep posting and keep loving yourself. An old sponsor of mine use to say to me "why do you care what he's doing?" Then she would give me Alanon step work to do. It does get better with time and experience. Hanging around Alanon meetings and calling Alanon members instead of calling him or spending time with my sponsor really helped me during those times. The most progress was when I found a god of my understanding who became my higher power. Up until then, the addict in my life had been my higher power. When I called on my new higher power for help, I got an answer. It wasn't just another unanswered phone call like with the A. The serenity prayer can be comforting too. Hugs. TT
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I hope you can find some good Al-anon meetings in your area and eventually a sponsor. My sponsor is priceless and has helped me to read the right books and move through so many problems I couldn't figure out on my own. Sending you love and support!
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I love the responses you received silent. They made me nod and smile because they were what was suggested to me and what I did and it helped me to take the focus off of my alcoholic/addict wife and put it on me and other things. My alcoholic/addict wife was my addiction. We use to say that if I could get her into a needle I would be "shooting her up" all day every day. Learning all that I could and practicing it gave me my sanity and life back. Follow thru on the suggestions if you have not already. Keep coming back. In support (((((hugs)))))
Then she would give me Alanon step work to do. It does get better with time and experience. Hanging around Alanon meetings and calling Alanon members instead of calling him or spending time with my sponsor really helped me during those times. The most progress was when I found a god of my understanding who became my higher power. Up until then, the addict in my life had been my higher power. When I called on my new higher power for help, I got an answer. It wasn't just another unanswered phone call like with the A. The serenity prayer can be comforting too. Hugs. TT