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I have to say I have 3 situations that are looming at the moment where I am unsure where to go. I have given it to God (HP) and am trying to keep my hands out of them.
1 situation I'm going to let go of .. I know that God's timing may not be mine however it also means that things will be arranged the way I need them to be. It's just a matter of when at this point.
2 of the other situations I'm still not sure about and I'm waiting for some return phone calls. We'll see.
What I need from my MIP family is a TON of prayers that God leads me to the next right thing and allows me to step back while He does what He needs to do. I don't need to meddle in things that are not my business.
It still doesn't make it easy, to take that step back and say hmm .. probably been meddling in things that I don't need to be; I did gain so much knowledge and for that I am so grateful.
Anyway, thanks, .. I love you guys you all are the best!! Hugs P :)
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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
Trust the process. There is a reading in the Courage to Change that ends with "Dont just do something sit there" It is a reminder that for us it is so very hard to be still and let HP work.
Yeah i love to control and have a hard time letting go, but when I do things always work out better than I could have forced it. Trust the process and try to do something to take your mind away to a great place. Sending you love and support always!!!!
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Sending you love and support on your journey always! BreakingFree
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" Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional."
"Serenity is when your body and mind are in the same place."
Oh, I would love to pray for you! Let go and let God and step back and let your Higher Power do his job! I love what Betty shared, because that is a HUGE problem for me, always 'doing', never resting. Sending you love and support, dear friend!
I've been caught in the cycle of obsessing at the moment and I'm frustrated with myself over the whole keep the focus on me because I haven't been. So today I have a lot to do and I've gotten back into some bad habits. Soooo .. I need to just refocus and stop with the obsessing .. ugh .. so not a fun thing. Today I feel a LOT better than I have over the past few days. I had a big big big set back. It's starting to clear.
Thank you for the prayers!! I feel soooo much better today!! This has been such a difficult situation and I"m so grateful to have this support .. it really clears away a lot of garbage for me to remember it's not about him .. my life is MY life.
Hugs P :)
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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
