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ok,1st off ive been away from alanon for several mths ,no meetings no where near me but been coming here way long time,most of you know me as chinup,ive been really busy with myself and sick son,got back with my ex a/d b/f i split up with him for nearly a year and dum me went and scooped him back up and away from his g/f that he had for 2 or 3 mths,well its been 6 mths we been together now and ive never in my life had std but went to dr last week and they tell me i have trichomosis which is a sexually transmitted desease and i called his ex g/f and she is gonna go have herself checked too and my a/d b/f said he was gonna have himself checked ,i read up on it on internet and it says ppl with hiv are mostly got trich,now im getting scared my dr wants me to come in for a full std panel check for any deseases.my a/d b/f says to that what if he aint got it and i told him that he did have it no ? about it and i caught it from him ,anyway im just scared to death that theyll find me with hiv also when i go to dr for my std screening,so plz everybody plz pray for me ,as far as me and him its over no more sex,cause to much risky and him working out of town all the time with construction i cant trust him al all he lies way to much and with this std there can be no sex for 20 days after him and me have taken all our antibiotics and gone back in for another testing.i dont beleive he will follow through with his end cause he never takes antibiotics even when he has too.so all he will be doing is going and spreading it all over the place.this is all new for me.so yes im literally scred to death and prolly have reason to be.just hope im clean and get this taken care of soon. thanx for listening i had to vent this ,i have enough health problems going on with sleep apnea,than to have this added on . hugs and more hugs ...silent,,,,,,all replys and esh are very much needed,,,ty
Welcome back It sounds as if the medical condition is under treatment and you are under doctor care Good news. Keep taking care of yourself. Follow up with the Doctor, take the meds, take the actions that will keep you safe and remember that you are not alone.
You know that the alanon program is a successful program for those of us who have lived with the problem of alcoholism. By living with this disease we become ill and need to recover.
Breaking the isolation is crucial. It is very important to develop new tools to live by. I know it is difficult for you to attend face to face meetings. so I urge you to not try to do this alone and please try to attend the on line meetings here They are the best.
Just sending you love and support, take anything on the internet regarding illness of any kind with a grain of salt. Many times it's the worst case scenario that is presented, at least that has always been my experience.
I do highly encourage you to take care of you, take the tests, find out what's going on and then you can make whatever decisions you need to make. Until you actually know what's going on stressing about it isn't going to change the outcome.
Go to face to face meetings and do the work on you because you are worth it.
Hugs P :)
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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
Sounds awful. The ex A was part of a big health problem i Had (long long story). That happened at the beginning of our relationship (in fact probably week 1) and I was destroyed by it for a long time.
He never took responsibility and it devastated me.
