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Tracy


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I am up and down.

Aware I am Hormonal too.

I seperated from ABF 2 months ago when he picked up been in AA 3 Years.

He is so sick and I am tired, I can not do this anymore. I am so sad I wanted him to get better for everything to be o.k.

THIS IS MY WILL

God must have different ideas for us. I miss him but know in my heart that we are not cmpatible and it is not fair on anyone him,me, my kids family.

Why do I find it so hard to move on.  I am praying talking to HP all the time.

This too shall pass.  I have an al anon friend coming today and have three meetings over the weekend.

 

just needed to connect with people who understand.

tracy xx



-- Edited by Tracy on Friday 13th of April 2012 04:29:53 AM

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ilovedogs


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Hugs Tracy. Keep doing what you're doing. As you said, this too shall pass. Just because you miss him doesn't mean that it's not God's will. We were given free will by God and were designed by him. We have feelings and because we're co-dependent sometimes the unhealthy thought patterns run deep like a river through our thinking, it's filled with mud and confuses us. Sending you lots of support today!

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hotrod


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Dear Tracy

I know that it is very painful to watch someone you love suffer in this disease. 

Accepting powerlessness gave me the freedom to love the person and still take care of myself.  Meetings, focused on myself, trusting HP worked.

You are in my thoughts



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Pushka


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Gotta love HHALT!! Hugs Tracy and jut like you said .. this too shall pass. I find in those moments meeting my own needs are paramount. I do feel better and those feelings pass faster than holding on to them.

Sending you love and support, hugs P :)

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welcome welcome welcome

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Your pain is very familiar to me. Al-Anon, along with other valuable sources, taught me that there is a power greater than myself and that this power will guide me if I allow it.

It's taken about a year now to finally "feel" that truth and learn to get quiet so that the power can speak/guide me.

In support of your growth, Gail

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