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I guess there isn't much to say today. I am doing very well! I have been blessed w/ a somewhat sound mind. I am doing what is that is in front of me. My ah is still sober. He is having a hard time w/ money issues. But then don't we all! He is just so serious about money that sometimes it takes away from the serenity he could have. It is the beginning of the month--S.S. comes in. Every month he tries to pay all the bills in one day--it makes him crazy & it makes me wonder if it doesn't affect me too. I am more laid back when it comes to money--I just spend it! LOL!
Awe nice share! I like hearing good news, and I learn from the struggles here so all of it is good. I'm the same way your AH is, I pay my bills before I do anything else, it stops me from being late and missing payments. It actually brings me relief to do that, but so far with my budget I can pay my bills and not have to struggle to juggle things. I did that for many, many years and that is stressful.
From my experience and attitude being that my spouse has a "just spends it" attitude I can relate. Gave me the shivers. I would just love to be totally debt free. (((hugs)))