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Gezz!!!  is it closure that's got me, i dunno.  But 7 months seperated and I miss him sooo much.

Sold the house 3 weeks ago.  He totaled the truck a week ago.  The guy who killed his son pleaded guilty and was sentenced to 15 years just a few days ago.  Lots of closure. 

OMG!!! i think i just got it!! for 7 months i've focused on "tasks"!! selling the house, what to do about the truck, worrying about what was going to happen with trial.

Now, nothing to stress over, only time to heal.  I'm hurting.  Haven't let myself hurt.

It's hard to move on from someone when you love them.  Can I move on?  I thought I was.  Oh Gezzz... God Grant Me the Serenity!!



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abbyal


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When the chaos is gone we dont know what to do with ourselves , been there a few times . Now is the time to take care of you . Louise



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It is a process! Take things slow and take care of yourself! Sending you love and support!

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I've been away from mine 6 months as of this month .. 6 months is all it's been and it's Still crazy for me to believe he has a whole new life now .. possibly with someone new because he moves fast .. I miss him too, even now .. but there are some options that really help with divorce/separation .. there are classes called divorce care .. one of the things they say with divorce, interestingly enough, with respect to everyone's beliefs .. is that when 2 people get married, God does something to bond them together .. (the 2 shall become 1) that the world does not see .. much like when we hear an awareness that the world could not hear .. so when the divorce begins to take place, they say it's like tearing flesh .. tearing God's bonds which is very painful ..

may read intense because it is when it's thought about on that degree .. my xa is so in the dark, it's sad and then again i have to keep telling myself -- i don't know what's best for either of us .. one day at a time .. I love the insight you had .. very true .. take time now to grieve and to heal .. keep sharing ..

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Pushka


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Hugs,

It all takes time. I agree now is the time to heal and figure out you without all of the outside chaos coming at you. ODAAT it's the best we have and sometimes it's moment by moment.

Hugs p :)

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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
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The mess, confusion and dysfunction did not get created in 7 months right? It will take longer to get to a place of comfort.

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You made it through a list of the chaotic loose ends, one next best step at a time. Way to go!

Jen


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One step at a time... take care of you!

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